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by AmyK

Dinner party for 6, or party for 60?

emotional intelligence empathic intelligence mindset shifts self-leadership Jul 08, 2024
AmyK with a cocktail in hand

Dearest SGI Goddess,

I much prefer a dinner party for six than a party for sixty.

It’s just who I am and how I’m wired.

How ‘bout you? Dinner party or disco ball? Or either, depending on your mood?!

🍽️ 🕺

Personally, I fancy fabulous fellowship via a thought-provoking conversation over a large gathering full of strangers just about any day ending in “y.”

As in:

How’s the weather?
vs
What burdens might you set down this season?

or

Did you see that movie with all the car chases?
vs
What are you chasing? How are you hoping you’ll feel when you catch it?

or

How ‘bout those Padres?
vs
Well … I do love my Padres, so let’s discuss their state of play first, then yours, What’s YOUR game plan for the next 6 months? How are you defining success?
 

Don’t get me wrong, I can navigate a party, pretend I’m running for Mayor, shake hands, clink glasses, circulate and smile.

But, for me, it’s a bit of an energy drain.

Whereas, a deep dive -- a truly magical conversation -- fuels me and restores me.

These shared connections ignite me and leave me better than when they found me.

Maybe that’s part of why I love coaching so much … the conversations are splendidly meaningful and transformative … for both of us.

And that’s a fabulous way to spend a day – doing something that expands your mind and heart.

I invite you to answer these questions for yourself this month … they may just shift your mindset enough to ensure you create an even more magical 2024.

💫 What burdens might you set down this summer season?

💫 What are you chasing? How are you hoping you’ll feel when you catch it?

💫 What’s YOUR game plan for the rest of 2024? How are you gonna define success?

To having a Magical Conversation with yourself.

Hugs n hugs,

AmyK

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