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by AmyK

Where's your secret weapon?

communicating to connect communication emotional intelligence leadership Mar 04, 2025

Hey, there! AmyK, here.

You have a secret weapon as a leader—

one that most people overlook, but when you master it, you create teams that are engaged, loyal, and inspired.

You create relationships that are deeply connective, and you positively impact far more people than you ever anticipated.

What is it?

The ability to lead with a soft heart and a firm spine.

I know, you’ve heard me share this sentiment before, but I’m reminding you of it today because IT’S SO IMPORTANT.

Ego-driven leadership craves control, validation, and the urge to be right—often surfacing as dominance, defensiveness, or even subtle [or not so subtle] bullying.

But the most brilliant leaders?

They create trust, inspire action, and elevate others—not by force, but by presence, clarity, compassion and connection.

A soft heart isn’t weakness; it’s the strength to listen deeply, to lead with empathy, and to create a culture where others feel seen and valued. So much so, that after a single conversation with you someone can leave feeling stronger … an elevated sense of their best selves.

A firm spine ensures you hold boundaries, stay true to your vision, and navigate challenges with integrity—without overpowering or diminishing others.

Here’s what you’ve been told that isn’t true: You have to choose between being firm and being compassionate.

The truth? The strongest leaders embody both.

So here’s a question to consider:

What if your greatest leadership strength isn’t in how much control you have over others [or think you have]—
but in how much heart to heart connection you cultivate to elevate, co-create, and shape a greater future together?

Your leadership leaves an imprint.

When you lead with both strength and compassion, you foster an environment where creative and innovative solutions are created to solve some of the most challenging and complex problems.

Your Ego demands. Your Heart invites.

I taught a free class this past January to approximately 650+ leaders about shifting from your Ego to Your Heart.

The result of this shift? It becomes your magnetic superpower.

How might your leadership shift if you leaned into both the wisdom of your heart and the steadiness of your spine?

Hugs,

AmyK

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P.S.: Ready to empower your leaders to shift from Ego to Heart? Discover how our transformative corporate retreats can equip your team with the tools for authentic, heart-led leadership.

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